Each year, the senior class of Onekama High School takes
part in a special course designed to prepare them for
life beyond the classroom. The culmination of the
etiquette class is a fine dining experience, in which
students get the opportunity to put in action the
lessons they have learned.
The course is taught by Beth McCarthy, who is a former
superintendent at Onekama Consolidated Schools and an
active volunteer in the community. The classes covered
topics including first impressions, gracious guest
practices, communication techniques, social awareness,
and appropriate manners in daily living. Other subjects
addressed during the sessions included the art of the
"thank you" (through word, written notes, hostess gifts,
etc.), interviewing skills, and confidence building
exercises.
“The purpose of the presentations was to reinforce the
lessons that the students have been taught by their
parents and teachers,” explained McCarthy. “Our focus
was ‘Life After School.’ Life experiences can sometimes
be overwhelming. My goal was to support the students by
giving them the skills necessary to be socially
confident and, ultimately, to be prepared for success.”
This year, the fine dining experience took place at the
Glenwood Restaurant in Onekama. “Donna Ervin and her
staff did an excellent job preparing a nice meal for
us,” commented Onekama teacher Nicole Torrey, who helped
to coordinate the etiquette program.
Although learning manners isn’t always a thrilling
experience for teenagers, the Onekama students had
nothing but praise for the classes and meal.
“I really liked having Mrs. McCarthy come teach us about
how to be polite and use proper etiquette,” said student
Emalee Schultz. “It was a good experience and I hope to
be able to learn more from her in the future.”
Added exchange student Jessica Roider, “The brunch was a
great experience. I think manners are important and it
is something we will really need to know in our life.”