Author Bill Kelly wrote, “Good
manners are a way of showing other people that we have respect for
them.” The Senior class of Onekama High School recently had the
opportunity to put Kelly’s words into action. The students
participated in a four-session etiquette class designed to help them
better navigate the world outside their classroom.
The course, taught by former
Onekama teacher, principal, and superintendent Beth McCarthy,
covered topics including first impressions, gracious guest
practices, communication techniques, social awareness, and
appropriate manners in daily living. Other subjects addressed during
the sessions included the art of the "thank you" (through word,
written notes, hostess gifts, etc.), interviewing skills, and
confidence building exercises.
“The purpose of the presentations
was to reinforce the lessons that the students have been taught by
their parents and teachers,” explained McCarthy. “Our focus was
‘Life After School.’ Life experiences can sometimes be overwhelming.
My goal was to support the students by giving them the skills
necessary to be socially confident and, ultimately, to be prepared
for success.”
On November 21, the
etiquette classes culminated in a distinctive practicum: a fine
dining experience at the restaurant at Arcadia Bluffs. The 33
students, along with McCarthy and Senior class advisor Dana Woolman,
were treated to a complimentary meal at Arcadia Bluffs, thanks to
Bill Shriver, Chief Operating Officer, and Scott VerStrat, Director
of Food and Beverage.
“The brunch setting gave the
students a fine dining experience with opportunities to become
familiar with appropriate attire, gratuities, seating, ordering,
table conversation -- all while having a good time,” said McCarthy.
The students took away more from
the experience than full stomachs. “It was great that Mrs. McCarthy
taught us the importance of good etiquette,” said Onekama Senior
Madalyn Harvey. “I really enjoyed it, especially because it's
applicable to my life.”
Senior Cordell Williams commented, “From Mrs. McCarthy, I learned a
lot of important life lessons. The trip to Arcadia Bluffs was an
awesome experience, and I know it will be very helpful to all of us
now and in the future.”
Onekama Superintendent Kevin
Hughes reaffirmed the value of instructing students in life skills,
and expressed gratitude to Arcadia Bluffs and McCarthy for their
contributions to the students. Said Hughes, “Onekama Consolidated
Schools appreciates the opportunity to teach its students the
importance of suitable social interaction and etiquette to the
Senior class at a world class facility like Arcadia Bluffs.”
